~ An Act, a Feeling and a Thought ~
the three primal elements that we use that disturb our natural state
3 elements are symptoms that occur spontaneously as soon as our native
free consciousness decides to identify with the particular body / mind
It is not that the ego mechanism is wrong or evil or a tragic error, the ego has its uses and purpose, but if it is overdone, then it produces and endless cascade of difficulties.
The ego is the vehicle we use in order to negotiate our way around our world. Perhaps we could think of it as we do our car or house. It is simply that. It is a wonderful tool, yet, as we know, sometimes people get carried away with their toys and begin to believe in them to such a degree that they get very confused about who they are.
it's not that negative emotions are the source of all our problems,
nor are negative thinking, personal narratives nor beliefs the cause
of our distress, nor are our
limiting identification is the source of what we all know as our personality.
And it is this wonderful and essential personality, as it currently
stands, that is paradoxically the source of our pain. This certainly
doesn't mean that in order to be happier that we have to eliminate our
self. On the contrary, it means that we have to "to expand the
ego back to infinity".
All the various schools of philosophy and therapy which deeply believe in either feelings, beliefs or negative behaviors as the true cause of human dysfunction and unhappiness seem to be ignoring this deeper issue of the constricting force of ego-identification.
It is the core task of a therapist to help the client loosen up this activity of identification (with the ego) and gradually support and encourage an expanded sense of self.
native state is happiness. A movement of exclusive identification with
our individual body-mind-and heart usually occurs, which if overdone,
produces the life-long sense or habit of separative-ness from all others.
you noticed the "good news" in all this?
may merely need someone to show you what you are doing to yourself,
and to offer you an active means to substitute an alternative orientation.
You are at liberty to call for as much or as little of these exercises as you wish. You may feel that it is most important for you to simply "talk". That is your choice, and I am quite happy to honour that need. You will always have the option of asking to do creative healing exercises when you feel the need. It is your call.
I am happy to tell you that this process of self mastery is not a grueling task, immersed in past dramas, or an endless assimilation of new and better insights, or a rigorous application to dreadful tasks, but a safe, graceful, and elegantly simple endeavor. Indeed it is often a most heartening and joyous process.
I'm so pleased by the success which my clients have achieved using my
Furthermore, I can guarantee you a refund for any session which you believe has not been effective.
Brian Emmett to have a chat, or schedule an appointment,
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"The World is moved
by Love ... it kneels before It in Awe."